In my opinion, we can humanize our enemies, and confront the true enemy of communities: militarism.
I'm not suggesting working people in military service are bad - it's a tough & dangerous job.
But after criminal operations such as the Vietnam War we should have imprisoned 1000 planners & politicians... same for America's ongoing genocidal war on the "redskin" and Hawai'i's occupation. How could slave traders & slave owners escape paying compensation?
Militarist capitalism has failed. Architects of chauvinist America should be held accountable for crimes.